# [Of Women and Men – or; Why You Are a spiritual Incel (Not a Practical Guide)](https://twitter.com/LegitDefinitely/status/1213652998926155777)

Inspired by the seething [@VEDIC_CYBERGOD's](https://twitter.com/VEDIC_CYBERGOD) New Year thread caused among those inclined towards involuntary celibacy.

Let us begin with a few simple statements. 
Men and women are not the same. 
Men are Yang – Positive/Active, and women are Yin – Negative/Passive. 
Positive and negative does not mean good and bad, instead see it as the poles of a magnet.

Yin and Yang, not Yin vs Yang.
Negative and Positive, not Negative vs Positive. 
Passive and Active, not Passive vs Active. 
Women and Men, not Women vs Men.

If you hate women, I have some news for you : you are a homosexual. Simple as. 
If you hold women to the same standard as men and then get angry at them when they fail to meet that standard, you are a cretin.

Men are not above women, nor are women above men. They are adjacent to each other, ever complementing and mutually supporting.  
By no means does this mean that they are equivalent, on the contrary.

Passivity and  Activity?  
Simply put; Men seize and women embrace. Men fill, women are filled. This is a concept which applies on all levels.

Consider Active Passivity, and Passive Activity. By this you explain all situations, the outliers, and those of higher blood.  
Consider the search for a mate. Men are hunters, Women are trappers.  Is making yourself a more attractive prey not a form of hunting?

Your woman is not your subordinate. You may lead, but it is she that walks by your side. Consider just how much power you truly hold in that situation. If you forced her to follow, then she is weak, and you are in turn weakened by her, for her Yin does not balance out your Yang.

By their Passive/Negative nature, women are open to the influences of Active/Positive energy, by that they will take the shape best suited to embrace that energy. This does not make them two-faced in the way that you would call a man, it is merely the nature of their flesh.

Do not dismiss how much power is in Yin. There is much gained in being passive. Consider how the riverbed directs and guides a torrent. In this they come together as a river. A work of two parties, not one.

If you aspire to have good progeny, then a good woman is required. Strength does not stop at a healthy body. Consider how she would fare with your progeny while you are unavailable. That however, is not enough. Maybe later I will expand on this further.

Seek balance. You must complement each other, not compete, nor have one dominate the other.  She is not your daughter, nor is she your mother – this is imbalance, for one party's energy overshadows the other's. You are a team.

Her purpose does not end with giving you children, if that is all you see then you are unbalanced and your dynamic is off, which in turn circles back to you again and again, causing disharmony. 
Nor is she only there for your pleasure, this too is disharmony.

Remember that, just as you are, they too are also flesh. Accept that. By this remember to love not your idea of her, but rather her. Your idea of her will settle in if she loves you. If you love the idea and not the woman, then you are wasting your time and hers.

On Harems – Yes, but not every man has enough Yang to handle much Yin. Once again, a question of balance. Regardless, a harem larger than 3 or 5 is basically a question of status. You don't bond with the concubines, only the main wives. Consider also the bond between wives.